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Eeeeee'sDespite my habit of blogging late at night, I usually don’t fall asleep on the job. Usually. The other night, however, my head dropped and I was gone, fingers resting on the keyboard. Twelve pages of eee’s later, I awoke and laughed at the result of my black-out, glad no one had seen me.

Today on the news I heard the story of a fellow keyboard-sleeper. A bank employee in Germany had arrived at work short on sleep, but his listless condition didn’t keep him from having an exciting day. While making a routine bank transfer of 64.40 Euros ($82.89 in US dollars), he fell asleep mid-transfer with a finger resting on the 2-key. As his brain was in zzzz-mode, his computer made a transfer of $222,222,222.22.

That was one expensive nap. His bogus transaction (which slipped past his wide-awake supervisor) cost his boss his job and the mess that resulted ended up in court.

All of us need to stay alert through our days and years. If we don’t, the consequences will be far more serious than multiple computer screens of letters and numbers. It’s no surprise Scripture details examples of when and why to stay alert. Here are 10 of them:

  • so we won’t be seduced by money
  • so we’ll identify God’s answers to our prayers
  • so we won’t use our tongues in hurtful ways
  • so we’ll make wise choices when they come to us
  • so we’ll recognize temptation when it hits
  • so our hearts won’t become dulled by the world
  • so we won’t allow bitterness to take root
  • so we’ll recognize Satan when he gets too close to us
  • so we’ll notice how God is moving in our lives
  • so we’ll be ready when Jesus returns to get us

Our lives will look quite different if we swap watchfulness for dozing, and the scriptural David is an example of this. He made all kinds of senseless decisions without being alert to the consequences and had to back-peddle later on. But in a passage from 2 Samuel, he explains his new resolve to stay alert and do things right, from that point on:

“God made my life complete when I placed all the pieces before him. When I cleaned up my act, he gave me a fresh start. Indeed, I’ve kept alert to God’s ways; I haven’t taken God for granted. Every day I review the ways he works, I try not to miss a trick. I feel put back together, and I’m watching my step. God rewrote the text of my life when I opened the book of my heart to his eyes.” (22:21-25, The Message)

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The good news is that any of us can follow David’s lead by making up our minds to stay alert…. which even includes time in front of a computer screen.

“Make sure you stay alert. Keep close watch over yourselves. Don’t forget anything of what you’ve seen. Don’t let your heart wander off. Stay vigilant as long as you live.” (Deuteronomy 4:9, The Message)

Eye-Rolling

Garage shelvesI remember the days when one or more of my children would say, “Where is my such-and-such?” I might answer with something like, “Try the basement.” (Or garage, or yard.) But like clockwork they’d quickly return saying, “Nope. Not there.”

Knowing it was, I’d send them back again, maybe with another clue. “Look about chest-high. I think I saw it there.”

But more often than not, they’d reappear. “Un-uh. Still not there.”

So I’d roll my eyes, march to the spot where the item was, put my hand right on it and say, “See? Exactly where I said it was.”

“Oh….” he/she would say. “I was looking for a box, but it was in a bag.” Or, “I was looking on the floor, but was on a shelf.” In other words, “It’s not my fault.”

Sometimes I act the same toward God. I ask a question, and he answers by giving me helpful information, like where to find peace or maybe security, or courage. But rather than carefully following his instructions I say, “Doing that doesn’t seem like it’ll bring peace.” Or, “Relying on that won’t make me feel secure.” Or, “Just believing words can’t give me courage.”

Surely God must roll his eyes. “Look where I’m telling you to find it, and you’ll find it.”

With my kids, the problem was they didn’t really want to look. Instead they wanted me to stop what I was doing, lead them to the item they were pretending to look for, and hand it directly to them. Watching this happen repeatedly produced plenty of frustration in me, exactly as it must for God when I become that same immature child.

So how can these seek-and-find scenarios be improved? What’s missing? First and foremost, a listening ear. When parents tell their children where to find something, the kids aren’t really listening to the details. They’re hoping for a quick fix, a way to get what they want without putting forth personal effort. Sadly, I’m the same way.

When I’m seeking self-control, for example, or love, or patience, God describes how to find them, but his directions usually include action at my end, and that’s both disappointing and discouraging in the moment. I want it right away and without effort. When it isn’t forthcoming, I run back to him and whine. “Nope. I don’t have it! It’s not there!”

He tells me again (and maybe again) what I must do to secure what I’m wanting, but I don’t succeed unless I “look” where he points and move in that direction. I know the Lord views us as his children, a privileged place to be. But on this issue, I want to act less like a child and more like the mature believer he hopes I will someday become.

“If one gives an answer before he hears, it is his folly and shame.” (Proverbs 18:13)

Marriage Preparation

The RingWhen a girl becomes engaged, she starts down a unique path that will never be repeated. After she receives a ring of commitment from her future husband, she moves through her last months as a single, focusing on becoming prepared to marry.

Part of that is the pleasure of receiving gifts for the new home-to-be. Today we had the fun of attending a Chicago bridal shower for our son Klaus’ bride-to-be, Brooke. Over scrumptious chicken salad we watched her open dishes and other items she and Klaus will need as they begin married life on June 22.

The Guests

Brooke had never met many of those attending today’s shower (friends of mine), which might be tense for some brides. But she smiled through answering many questions as guests happily became acquainted with her. If she was stressed, it didn’t show, and she charmed us all.

When a bride and groom come together in marriage, it’s never just about the two individuals but is the union of two extended families. In recent months as we’ve been celebrating with Brooke and Klaus, our family and friends have been getting to know Brooke’s family and friends, and both groups are finding their worlds expanding to include the other. This phenomenon is one of the enchanting byproducts of doing marriage God’s way.

Today’s devotional thoughts were brought to us through Connie, a friend of mine since we were both in diapers. She compared two weddings: the one that will happen on June 22, and the one God is planning (for those who love him) at the end of the age. Scripture uses the symbolism of a wedding to help us understand the close relationship Jesus longs to have with us. He will be the groom, and we, the church, will be his bride. There will be a wedding feast the likes of which we’ve never seen, and he encourages us to look forward to it, even now, as he is preparing for it.

The Bride

Connie said, “Brooke, there may be little things that go wrong on your wedding day, but as the Bride of Christ you will one day experience a perfect wedding. Earthly marriage may include set-backs, but marriage to Jesus as “The Lamb of God” will be flawless. It will be everything every bride hopes for in a relationship, without a single misunderstanding or mistake.

These thoughts got us all thinking. No marriage can be perfect. All husbands and wives get frustrated with each other at some point and experience disappointment. But the future bridegroom, Jesus, is already in love with Brooke and Klaus and wants their marriage to succeed so it can be an example of his future marriage to the church. So even before they get started, he has already made himself available for assistance, should their path ever need smoothing.

Celebration

And over chocolate cake we all said, “Amen to that!”

“Blessed are those who are invited to the wedding feast of the Lamb.” (Revelation 19:9)