No Place Like Home

Mail from SarahMy UK co-grandma, Sarah, is married to Cliff, who recently traveled to London and brought back something special. It arrived yesterday: an in-tact 6” x 9” envelope, plump-full. (See yesterday’s blog.) Inside was a beautiful linen tea towel depicting the British Parliament – House of Lords, House of Commons, and the familiar London landmark, Big Ben.

I hadn’t expected a replacement towel for the one that was lost in the mail, so this gift was a charming surprise. Having been to London twice, I recognized the landmarks, but even if I hadn’t, I would have known Big Ben from movies, pictures, and textbooks.

Taj Mahal

As I studied the towel, I thought of all the well-known places in our world I haven’t visited but still would recognize, for example, the Taj Mahal, The Great Wall of China, Stonehenge, Niagara Falls, The Sphinx. As school children we studied these impressive wonders and saw pictures of them, becoming acquainted from afar.

Last night Nelson, Birgitta, and I had an interesting dinner-time discussion about the biblical new heaven and new earth. Although there is no way to visit these places, we do have textbook pictures of what they’ll be like, which invites us to get acquainted with them as we did with the famous places in our school books.

God wants us to know that one day he’s going to bridge the gap between heaven (the spiritual) and earth (the physical) by bringing them together. The Bible tells us he’ll make a new heaven and earth for us, describing what they’ll look like after he combines them, although much is still left to our imagination. But since he’s calling our new home “earth,” he probably intends for it to be familiar to us, a better version of what we know now.

Maybe he’ll eliminate all the undesirables of our world, then enrich all the good parts, and add heaven. If that’s true, when the time comes to go there, we’ll probably find it pleasantly familiar (but greatly enhanced). Maybe we’ll find roses without thorns, water without floods, gardens without weeds, and seasons without storms. But roses, water, gardens, and seasons will make our heavenly-earth feel very much like home.

Perhaps God is excited about our reaction to his new heaven and earth the same way parents anticipate a child’s response to a longed-for gift. Since he tells us some of what eternity will be like, he must want us to develop a longing for it, not just in his textbook version but in actual experience.

Tea Towel

I’m grateful to have visited the famous landmarks on my stunning new tea towel from Sarah. And maybe someday I’ll get to see a few more of the legendary sights our world has to offer. But most of all, I want to see what God will show us, knowing it’s going to be out of this world.

“This is the plan: At the right time he will bring everything together under the authority of Christ – everything in heaven and on earth.” (Ephesians 1:10)

An Empty Feeling

Hans and KatyOur son Hans lives in England full time and is married to Katy, who was born and raised there. He first encountered Katy on a 5 month mission trip based in New Zealand, and by mid-way through those weeks, he knew she was the one-and-only for him.

Nate and I worried it might only be the equivalent of a summer camp romance that might fade after they returned to their native countries, but just the opposite happened. They’ve had a strong, Christ-centered marriage for 6 years now.

Shirt-tail Relatives

We four parents enjoyed developing relationships, too, experiencing many common bonds as we got to know each other. Cliff was a city lawyer like Nate, and both loved history. They, too, had a large family (5 children), and Sarah was an at-home mother, investing heavily in hearth and home as I had. Best of all, we related through our faith in Christ.

I remember our first visit to Katy’s childhood home. Sarah, who has always baked the family bread from scratch, had a stove/oven like I’d never seen before. Her “aga” was a wonder, always “on” with higher heat in some compartments than others. There was no temperature dial, but Sarah knew where to put her bread, where souffle cooked best, and where to gently warm leftovers.

An aga stove and oven

Since Sarah chose not to have a dishwasher, the stainless bar across the front of the aga served as an ideal place to dry dish towels. Their well-used tea towels depicted places of interest the family had been, and I liked spreading them out to see. It didn’t take long for Sarah and I to establish a tea towel appreciation club of sorts, and since we first met, we’ve been sending interesting towels back and forth across the ocean.

Two weeks ago, a mysterious 6” X 9” envelope appeared in my mailbox with Sarah’s return address on it and nothing inside. Along with the customs stamp, air mail sticker, and “Royal Mail” label was a red ink stamp from our local post office: RECEIVED WITHOUT CONTENTS. No explanation was given.

Empty envelope

From Sarah’s note on the customs sticker I saw she’d written “linen” and knew I’d missed out on another tea towel, along with a meaningful note that surely accompanied it. The empty envelope made me feel empty inside.

Life is full of empty experiences, most of them far more serious than an empty envelope. The Bible actually tells us to expect that kind of thing. Whether Sarah’s tea towel disappeared by accident or a misdeed we’ll never know, and “why-answers” about life’s other empty experiences usually aren’t forthcoming either.

But there is satisfaction in knowing that every empty feeling of human experience will one day be filled by God. And I believe (just for the fun of it) that he’ll even let us know what happened to Sarah’s missing tea towel.

“Your throne, O God, endures forever and ever. You rule with a scepter of justice.” (Hebrews 1:8)

I wanna do it!

Emerald loves to help in the kitchen. Never mind that she’s only 7 months old. When I cut up my stir-fry veggies, she likes to sit in her Bumbo on the counter next to me, banging the broccoli against the counter-top or washing the pea pods with her drool.

Emerald assists in the kitchen

If I’m holding her when I open the refrigerator, she lunges toward its contents, fascinated by the variety of colors and shapes inside. This afternoon I decided she could help as I put food away and set her Bumbo in front of the fruit and veggie drawers. She happily banged them open and closed, sucked on the bag of mini-carrots, and rattled the salad dressing bottles overhead.

No doubt Emerald thinks of herself as wonderfully capable and wonders why she isn’t allowed to do everything the rest of us do. But of course there are several problems. She’s inexperienced, unqualified, and incapable. None of that stops her, though, from wanting to try.

When our Louisa began learning to put words together, one of her first (and oft-repeated) sentences was, “I wanna do-it!”

I wanna do it...

At age two, she wanted to accomplish things with skills she thought she had but didn’t. We all saw the disparity, but of course she couldn’t understand. Her desire was strong, and when we wouldn’t let her try something we knew she couldn’t handle, her objections were loud and long. But having a big dose of want-to isn’t enough to accomplish something beyond our capabilities.

How many times do we adults proceed just like baby Emerald or toddler Louisa, ill-equipped to handle a task but diving into it anyway? We think, “Somehow it’ll all work out in the end.” And when it doesn’t, we end up more frustrated than at the beginning.

Scripture says we should count the cost before starting any endeavor, and if we aren’t able to pay the necessary price, we shouldn’t start. This can be a discouraging place to be as we’re forced to wait before taking action, but what we can do while we’re waiting is work to become fit for the undertaking.

I think of the way God works in people’s lives and know we should imitate that. He usually takes his time putting all the pieces in place before unveiling his plans for us. That’s why it seems so long between our prayer requests and his answers. He doesn’t rush to get things completed in a hurry, and he never panics, but instead proceeds in an orderly way. We should determine to do the same, programming planning-pauses into our lives.

Baby Emerald will gain in skill as she gains in months, and toddler-Louisa has grown into a capable young adult. But all of us have to learn (one way or another) that when we “wanna do it right now,” our timing could very well be off.

And if we need to talk it over with someone who understands, Emerald is usually available.

“Hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what they already have? But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.” (Romans 8:24-25)