Spirit-filled Ancestors

All of us have heard testimonies of people with difficult pasts who’ve somehow, against all odds, turned their lives around. They might have had a history of dreadful choices or even a rap sheet a mile long, but for many of them the turnaround came after connecting with Christ.

As often as not, their testimonies include a statement like this: “My grandmother prayed for me for decades, and God finally answered.”

If we could piece together our family trees for many generations back, all of us would probably find that God’s representatives had been placed in strategic places all along, to pray for their families. Some even prayed for “those yet unborn,” which would include us.

My sister has done an excellent job as our “Family Historian,” keeping memorabilia safe and well categorized in labeled storage bins. She’s amassed everything from diplomas and photographs to wedding gowns, jewelry, infant-wear, and letters.

Ancestor albums

Several years ago a family friend, Sally, offered to go through Mary’s bins and condense everything into two 9” x 12” albums, one for Dad’s side of the family and one for Mom’s. She scanned or photographed everything so that even bulky items morphed into crisp, flat notebook pages. She also typed up old hand-written letters, some over 100 years old, to place alongside originals, which in some cases included translations from other languages.

Sally also added official census records rewritten from hard-to-read official documents to legible charts. These pages take account of birth dates and all known addresses, emigration and immigration dates, occupations, marriages, children’s birth and death dates, causes of death where known, burial locations, and an all-inclusive family tree.

Recently I’ve spent time with my distant relatives via these two family albums, going on a hunt for God-sightings through the 5 generations represented. And what I learned is God establishes his Spirit somewhere in every family tree.

Youthful Carl Johansson

For example, my paternal grandfather (Carl Johan Johansson) came to America in 1886 as a 19 year old laborer with a homemade wooden box of tools, and he brought Jesus Christ with him. By the end of his 68 years, he’d married, fathered four children, had become a building contractor and finally the vice president of a Chicago bank. He died 10 years before I was born, so we never met, except through these albums.

Taking in the details of his life, which of course include my own father’s 1899 birth, has been a satisfying exercise that’s made me grateful for God’s involvement in this “old world” family, my family. Sally’s charted numbers have told a non-numerical story of personal lows and highs similar to the lives of today’s families. And God is in the details.

Older Carl Johansson (Johnson)

But most importantly, when Carl Johannson’s death date had been written into the record books, God’s Spirit lived on within him.

(Tomorrow: the life he lived)

“Remember your Creator… before the dust returns to the ground it came from, and the spirit returns to God who gave it.” (Ecclesiastes 12:7)

Wisdom from Dr. Seuss

The Curington FamilyMy webmaster, son-in-law Adam, is an ongoing blessing to me, not just because he manages GettingThroughThis.com but because he’s a young man walking close to God and through that is a good example to everyone around him. He’s also a dedicated husband to my daughter Linnea and a committed father to Skylar, Micah, and Autumn, all-in on that big job.

Adam has served not only as webmaster but also as my stalwart encourager. Once in a while people mention “my advanced computer skills,” and I quickly deliver the truth. Each web site task has been painstakingly learned through trial and error (think error and more error) at the expense of Adam’s gentle supervision. He doesn’t lose patience with my re-asking the same questions but re-answers as if I’d never asked.

If it wasn’t for Adam, this blog wouldn’t exist, and for more reasons than one, I’m glad it does. If it didn’t, I’d be missing out on the wealth of blessing funneling back through readers. Emails and comments embedded with nuggets of gold go to my “Interesting things to file” folder, an ever-growing file of gems.

And here’s an example:

Linda, a cyber-acquaintance, is traveling through the painful “firsts” of new widowhood after losing her husband of 37 years. She wrote to me of her love for him and how he had put her needs ahead of his own, one of the most difficult tasks anyone can tackle. She misses him intensely but is determined to remain above negativity.

Dr. Seuss Logo

She wrote, “A quote by Dr. Seuss is my new mantra: ‘Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.’ I’m choosing not to be mad at God, and I’m thankful for the love I enjoyed for so long, choosing not to be ungrateful because it ended.”

 

Linda has the right idea: (1) choosing not to be mad at God, and (2) being thankful for her husband’s love.

Interestingly, Step 1 is what opens the door to Step 2. If we indulge in anger toward the Lord, thankfulness will elude us, but as we set aside our natural desire to blame someone, (especially God), gratitude no-matter-what becomes possible.

Each of us have daily opportunities to think and act like Linda. If we make up our minds to be thankful, that outlook empowers us toward additional good things, like giving our time to others, making sure the excluded are included, going out of our way to serve, and like Linda’s John, putting the needs of others ahead of our own.

I’ve got a long way to go to catch Linda, but her fine example proves it’s possible. So I’m starting right now, feeling thankful for:

  • Linda.
  • other widows who’ve shared their stories.
  • 40 years with Nate.
  • a God who has partnered with me through 3½ years of widowhood.
  • Adam, a son-in-law who kindheartedly taught me how to blog.

“Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable.” (Philippians 4:8)

Highest Honor

Barack Obama Sworn In As U.S. President For A Second TermYesterday I blogged about the 3 Bibles President Obama used in taking his oath of office and the significance of placing a hand on God’s Word. I’m not sure what God thinks about all that, but I do know he’s pleased when we put his Word in a place of honor and respect.

Several presidents, when taking their oaths, have put their hands on open Bibles, touching passages significant to them. For example, George W. Bush laid his hand on Isaiah 40:31. “They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength…” If there’s ever a job that needs renewed and re-renewed strength, it’s a president’s.

But other jobs desperately need the message of that verse, too, such as mothers caring for young children, fathers leading their families, businessmen trying to be ethical, pastors shepherding their congregations, widows struggling with grief… and virtually everyone else. The beauty of God’s Word is that it’s not just for presidents or formal ceremonies. It’s for all mankind.

1958 Bible

This week I ran across my first “adult” Bible, the one my parents gave me at Christmas in 1958. I was 13 and had asked for a Bible with onion skin pages. I felt I’d outgrown my childhood Bible storybook and wanted to appear sophisticated in church and in Sunday school sword drills by being able to flip through those crinkly pages.

My Bible flyleaf is decorated with pithy Christian sayings and references that meant something to me back then, written in the script of a junior high school student. I remember being in love with this Bible until relatives gave me my first study Bible after high school. But the amazing thing about my old Bible is that it’s on an equal par with the “special” Bibles President Obama used during his inauguration.

Even though his Bibles had belonged to some very famous men, what’s most important about them is not who owned or used them, but who wrote them. And that’s the same thing that’s important about my nothing-fancy Bible, which puts mine on the same elevated plane as theirs.

Loved

What they all have in common is that the words inside were supernaturally written by God and are divinely charged with enough power to change lives. And that is why we give honor and respect to God’s Word and on occasion, even give it a part to play in a presidential inauguration.

“Your word, Lord, is eternal; it stands firm in the heavens. Your faithfulness continues through all generations.” (Psalm 119:89-90)