Obituary of Nelson Hamilton Nyman

Nelson Hamilton Nyman was a young man who had much to live for with a wife he adored and a new baby boy, his first child. He fought to live with all the determination of a warrior, but in the end, God had a different plan and took him to heaven “early.” On Christmas morning, 2022, Nelson quietly left us.

He was born in Chicago, on January 26, 1973, weighing in at 10 pounds. His noteworthy start was an indication that he would live a large life all the way through, and he did. His family raised him in the Chicago suburbs where he attended Christian Liberty Academy through his elementary years, followed by Hersey High School, both in Arlington Heights, Illinois. Nelson loved working with his hands and working hard, especially outdoors. He delighted in solving problems, whether by repairing an old car, scraping moss off a roof, or best of all, helping others mend relationships.

He and a cousin began a lawn mowing business while still in high school, learning how to do far more than just cut grass. Because both of them were of Swedish heritage, they named their business Scandinavian Lawn. Through the years, they mastered every gardening skill there is and also learned how to balance books and how to keep customers happy. In and out of college during those years, Nelson eventually graduated from Anderson University in Indiana with a Bachelor’s Degree in psychology and a minor in criminal justice, but a desk job was not for him.

In choosing a place to settle after college, he decided to sell his Illinois landscaping business to his brother and move to Tennessee—where the summers are long and a landscaper can work most of the year. Nelson loved country music and landed in the musical capitol of the nation, Nashville. There he began landscaping in earnest, growing his business to include several employees and 80 customers. Even with this success, though, his heart was being tugged in a new direction.

As a little boy of five, Nelson invited Jesus into his heart and life. He attended Sunday school and church every week with his family and found it all fascinating. Throughout his growing-up years he remained conscious of God, His Word, and how he ought to live as a Christian. In his early adulthood, however, he sometimes strayed but would always find his way back to the Lord.

About then, he met several friends who had spent time in Kona, Hawaii, at a Christian organization called Youth With A Mission (YWAM) and wondered if he should try it, too. During the off-season of landscaping, he ventured to Hawaii, taking classes and working at the YWAM campus in Kona. To his great delight, he discovered he could travel the world with YWAM while spreading the good news of God’s Gospel as he went. So once again Nelson sold Scandinavian Lawn and committed to working in the YWAM ministry. He led different groups through a variety of countries and cultures, filling an assortment of positions while 13 years passed. He loved his work, each new day different from the one before, but more than that, he grew to love Jesus Christ with a passion that never dimmed.

Eventually he took a position that was anchored in Kona, running a YWAM program with 50-100 young adults from all over the world, guiding them spiritually while managing their work hours on the campus. It was in this position that lightning struck when he met a new staffer from Germany. Ann Sophie was assigned to work alongside Nelson, and it wasn’t long before co-workers were commenting about the electricity between them. A year later they were married in Kona, both dedicated to continuing their missionary work there—now as a team.

But last March, Nelson began feeling poorly. Their baby boy, Will, had just been born, and he was overwhelmed with joy to have become a father. The day of his cancer diagnosis was a challenge beyond all others, a crushing disappointment invading the happiest time of his life. In May of this year they left Hawaii, landing at the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota for treatment. God chose a path for him that neither he, Ann Sophie, nor little Will would ever have chosen, but he decided not to ask “why” but to leave the reason with God. No doubt his new home in Paradise includes satisfying answers to many of his questions. His family will have to wait to hear them, but they are confident that one day they’ll all be together again. Their farewell wasn’t permanent….just “goodbye for now.”

Nelson is survived by his wife (Ann Sophie), his son (Willard Nelson), his mother (Margaret), six siblings( Lars, Linnea [m. Adam], Klaus, Hans [m. Katy], Louisa [m. Teddy] and Birgitta [m. Spencer]), 15 nieces and nephews, two uncles (Kenneth and Bervin), and 16 cousins.

9 thoughts on “Obituary of Nelson Hamilton Nyman

  1. Ohhh he and you all “cousins” have made a impact on me. And true last couple years I’ve had friends going to ywam school in Kona Hawaii that has enjoyed Nelson’s work. He will be missed of many all over the world!

  2. Dear Margaret, you are still the same wonderful Momma to all your adult kids, and grandkids.
    Nelson learned, and followed your example; a great relationship with the Lord. Yes, it’s a “goodbye for now”, and a “see you later” statement. My heart hurts because you hurt. Nelson was a handsome, happy, healthy
    man. I enjoyed reading his Blog on your Blog. Praying still for you and your huge family. I love you.

  3. What a beautiful tribute to Nelson, and his wonderful life, lived in his love for the Lord.

  4. Oh Margret, I’m so sorry for you and the family! He fought so hard! Today, he is whole, hearty and enjoying his Savior’s presence. May God give you His strength as you mourn.
    With love, Kate W

  5. I loved reading Nelson’s life story. Thank you for sharing it. I know you will all miss him SO much but am thankful that we all know we will see him again in heaven. May Jesus and his Holy Spirit comfort all of you in your loss! Big hugs to all! – Cathy

  6. May God send comfort during the loss of your son. The reassurance of seeing those who have gone before us as believers in Christ finished work on the cross becomes a treasure in knowing our eternal life will be with those who have gone before us. As a new year approaches I pray for God to have me see more each day as I read his word. Thank you for sharing your life experiences on your website. Your gift is being able to share the year ahead to encourage us on our way. Keep us updated on your beautiful family & Sophie & Will .

  7. May God send comfort during the loss of your son. The reassurance of seeing those who have gone before us as believers in Christ finished work on the cross becomes a treasure in knowing our eternal life will be with those who have gone before us. As a new year approaches I pray for God to have me see more each day as I read his word. Thank you for sharing your life experiences on your website. Your gift is being able to share the year ahead to encourage us on our way. Keep us updated on your beautiful family & Sophie & Will .
    In Christ,
    Lois

  8. Dear Margaret,

    I was so sorry to read about Nelson’s passing. I have been praying for him, his family, and you as well. May you be greatly comforted by Nelson’s commitment to the Lord and by God’s peace and strength through this time.

    With fervent prayers,
    Lana Schwartz

  9. Margaret, I continue to follow the thread of your life story, and am heartbroken over your loss. I have many memories of Nelson from childhood. He had an energy and fire to him that was compelling and mysterious. As he matured, I saw the man of God he was becoming, and his fire and passion being funneled into Gods kingdom. I was so pleased to hear he married the woman of his dreams a few years ago and excited for this new season of his life. I will never forget Nelson and the impact that he has left on those he loved and served right up until the end. Please know that I think of you often and hold you in my heart. Your mothers love is a model and inspiration for me as I parent and walk beside my own children through life’s trials. Thank you for your continued honesty, candor, and sharing of your heart. It is a remarkable testament to how you have allowed Gods love and grace to shine through the pains of life. Thank you for giving hope to those who are hurting. With love, Lynn (Lutzer) Roush