Tis the Season

Christmas time puts many extra items on everyone’s to-do list. Our brains quickly clutter with gift ideas, entertaining opportunities, and pressing errands. As we go about our usual responsibilities, seasonal tasks take priority while everything else slides.

A few days ago, after yanking a stack of cash from the local ATM, I pulled into the bank lot to organize my wallet and prioritize my errands. As I sat with a wad of bills in one hand, my list and a pen in the other, I saw in my periphery vision a man approaching my car. “Now what,” I thought.

ATMHe rapped on the frosty window, and I looked up from my organizational work through irritated eyes. He smiled, then pressed something flat against the window for me to see: my ATM card.

Racing to start my errands, I’d forgotten to pull the card from the machine. This kind man had done it for me and amazingly had noticed my running car in the nearby lot. If he’d chosen to keep the card, he could have headed for the nearest Walmart and gone on a spending spree, since I’d recently made a large deposit to cover a college tuition bill.

Feeling ashamed of myself, I rolled down the window and accepted the card. He smiled and said, “I thought you might need this.”

Last week I blogged about my friend Melanie performing 38 random acts of kindness. The man who returned my card was doing one, too, expecting nothing in return. I wish I’d thought to give him a reward. Then I would’ve had the fun of participating in a random act of kindness, too.

Jesus was the perfect model of performing kindnesses. He healed, blessed, taught, served and did a variety of miracles for the benefit of others. One lavish kindness was feeding a mob of hungry people by miraculously dividing five rolls and two fish to generate food for all.

As the disciples walked among the masses distributing that meal, did Jesus’ hands get tired breaking off bits of bread and fish? There were 5000 men there that day, with women and children probably doubling it. Since all were satisfied after the meal, he probably “broke the bread” (i.e. tore off many thousands of pieces) with human fingers that surely got sore.

Did he receive anything in return? Although the story is told in all four Gospels, none mentions that Jesus even got to eat his own meal that day.

During this season of Christmas gift-giving, each time I pull out my ATM card I’ll think of the stranger and his random act of kindness. But I’ll also think of Jesus, who went out of his way to be kind to others…. and is still doing it today.

“God loves a cheerful giver.” (2 Corinthians 9:7)

Praising and Praying with Mary

We are all praising God tonight for the safe delivery of Anders James! God is good!

Something New

Every December I pray the same prayer: Lord, please show me something new about the Christmas story.”

The cardsAnd then I watch for it. I think of it as a special game that God and I play together. He has “all the cards” but when asked, is willing to show one (or more) of them to me. I know he isn’t going to lay out the whole hand, but seeing even one of them means he’s letting me win one round of our game.

In past years he’s never failed to answer my prayer, sometimes in big ways, sometimes small. This morning in church, as the children presented a brief Christmas program, he showed me one of his cards. It was just a little one, but I appreciated it.

Shepherds and sheep.As a robed angel-boy announced to the shepherds that the Savior had been born, other angels chimed in with singing, and an invitation was given to “go and see” the new baby. The child-shepherds responded with this:

“The Lord will take care of the sheep. Let’s go!”

And there it was. The new card. I’d never thought about those sheep before, the ones “abiding in the field” outside Bethlehem with their “shepherds keeping watch over them by night.” The text says the shepherds immediately went “with haste” to find the baby Jesus.

Surely after their encounter with so many supernatural beings, none of them gave the sheep another thought as they bolted toward town. And though Scripture doesn’t include that line about the Lord being the one to take care of the sheep, that’s probably exactly what happened. I can’t see any of the shepherds volunteering to miss out on this awesome event by hanging back with the sheep.

We’ve heard the nativity story so many times it tends to move in one ear and out the other without making any fresh impact. To consider one small part of it we haven’t thought about before is to look afresh at this 2000-year-old story, even if it’s only something simple like wondering about who cared for the sheep after the shepherds ran off.

But an even greater joy comes in realizing that God generously answers the prayers of people seeking more of him and wanting further information about his story. I plan to keep watching in case God wants to play another round of our game, and thankfully, he’s ok with that. Actually, he has encouraged me to stay on the lookout and seems to enjoy revealing more of his story to anyone who wants to know.

“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” (Jeremiah 29:13)

Praising and Praying with Mary

  1. Please pray that our 11th grandchild will be safely delivered tomorrow.
  2. I’m thanking God for how really good I feel without the feeding tube!

One More from Melanie

In this season of giving, we’ve peeked in on how someone else does it, providing some fresh oomph for all of us to pass along whatever kindnesses we can. Melanie reported, after her birthday was over, that next year she’ll tweak her system to make it more efficient. After all, the number of kindnesses will only grow as the candles on her cake increase. Here’s what she wrote in an email:

At the end of the day I was pretty worn out…next year I’ll have to start giving myself a week to accomplish my list, because it’s not going to get any easier to get through it.  

Kindness..Many of the things were actually just a matter of getting around to my good intentions…notes I meant to write or thank-you’s I meant to say long ago but hadn’t accomplished. It felt good to just hunker down and be intentional (which is the opposite of random, I know) about making sure certain people were feeling loved and appreciated. I learned that it really doesn’t take much time at all, with a little planning, to brighten someone’s day who really needs it.

A few more things I learned… 

Kindness participantKindness starts at home. There are a gazillion things I do that all of us moms and wives do to serve our families, but I’m learning that there’s a big difference in the way I go about it when I have the mindset of, “How can I bless them?” I noticed an absence of resentment and an all-around better attitude when I thought to myself, “I can get this for him,” or “She would like it if…” Thanks, Lord, for the heart change! 

Along those lines, as this becomes a birthday tradition, I may make arrangements so the kids aren’t with me the _whole_ time I’m running around town. It may get easier as they get older, but this year I heard a lot of whining about getting in and out of the car, and it really amounted to a long day with lots of driving around for them. 

I also learned that I’m really awkward when I’m talking to random people. But the look of surprise when they learn they’re getting a free coffee is worth it.

Kindness....And I want to be sure to bless people who don’t get many thank-you’s, like those serving at school or church or cleaning public restrooms.  

And most importantly, I want to make the day less about “random,” which is a little too much about me and “how nice I am.” Instead I want to more purposefully share the love of Christ, because without him, I’m rotten and selfish.

And lastly, I confirmed that I have the most patient, indulgent husband. He drove around in rush hour traffic for me and never complained.  

All in all, best birthday ever. Tradition established. 

Love, Mel

“Remember this…. Whoever sows generously will also reap generously.”                    (2 Corinthians 9:6)

Praising and praying with Mary

I’m praising God for an early Christmas gift: my feeding tube came out today! Thank you so much for the faithful praying all of you did about this!