A Sad Weekend

Tonight’s post is written in real-time and is not a re-post.

IMG_0777As if Mary and her family didn’t have enough on their minds these days, last week they were given more. Their Australian Shepherd Sydney, a model pet for 13 years, had begun having some serious health issues: everyday nervousness, a kidney infection, extremely deep sleeps, chronic ear infections, and eventually a refusal to eat.

When Marta took her to the vet where she works, the prognosis wasn’t good: renal failure.

Eventually Sydney stopped drinking, so Marta took her in for IV fluids to make her feel better. But time in the vet’s office was so strenuous for Syd, the decision was made to let her stay at home without further treatment.

On Friday Mary and Stina drove the 11 hours from Michigan to Arkansas to spend time with Sydney, Marta, and Julia’s family [the Levers] in an effort to make decisions together.

Mary tells the Saturday story:

“Poor Syd just wasn’t herself, not interested in anybody or anything. She wagged her tail and looked up but would quickly put her head down and close her eyes. She was declining in a hurry, not eating but just lying under the deck or a bush, away from everyone.

“I’d hoped to have a few days with her, but there was nothing to gain by that, especially for Syd. The vet on duty lives in the neighborhood, and we asked if he could bring home what he needed and do it here, so Syd wouldn’t have to endure another traumatic visit to the clinic. As a favor to Marta, he agreed.

IMG_4065“When Dr. Wolf arrived, Syd came trustingly out from under the deck to lay in the grass. He assured us she wasn’t going to get better with kidney failure.

“Julia’s family had delayed their vacation to be with us. We all gathered around Syd in the grass, and [Julia’s husband] Drew prayed and thanked God for Syd and for all the years we had with her. Everyone said their own goodbyes, and then the vet gave her a sedative.

IMG_3070“It was very easy, since Syd had an IV in her leg already. She relaxed, and I felt her go limp as her eyes closed and her sweet face settled into my hands. Then the vet, a sympathetic Christian man, administered the heart-stopping drug. And she was gone in a few minutes, very gentle and peaceful.

“Lots of tears were falling as we just sat stroking her and talking about her. Buddy [the year-old Springer belonging to Mary and Bervin’s grandson Andrew] lay down and put his head on Syd. Little [2 year old] Abigail put a black garbage bag over her like a blanket.

“I’m so glad the Levers stayed late, because the girls and I would never have been able to dig a grave in this stony Arkansas ground. We buried Syd near Rusty, their dog that died a few years ago, in a quiet woodsy area of their property.

IMG_7964“After it was all over, we all felt we’d done the right thing for Syd. It was quiet and peaceful sitting on their front porch afterwards, but I miss Syd and tear up just thinking about her. She was a good and perfect dog, and we loved her very much. It was a hard day here, but it’s almost over.”

“Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father.” James 1:17

7 thoughts on “A Sad Weekend

  1. May the Lord give you all great peace and comfort in the days ahead. Our pets are members of the family and it is always hard to let go. Shedding tears.

  2. Mary, praying for you , Stina and Marta. I know how you missed Syd when she went to live with Marta. Will really be praying for Marta as she will be at Julia’s without Syd this week.

  3. Syd was obviously a well loved friend. A sad weekend indeed, but nice that the family could say goodbye at home.

  4. O my gosh. I cried when I read this. It’s horribly sad to lose a beloved pet. They are like family. I know that supposedly animals don’t go to heaven but I’d like to think that maybe I’ll see them again some day. My heart goes out to you.

  5. We had to release our dog Tigger from suffering about 18 months ago (he was 15) and I still miss him every day. Dogs are a real gift from God so we can understand unconditional love better. Your family is in my prayers as always.

    Jane

  6. It is sad, but good to see how you are all drawing closer, and thanking God for Sydney’s life. (The author, Randy Alcorn, in his research of the Bible, believes that we will see our pets in Heaven.)

  7. So sorry for the loss of your beloved Syd. I lost my Chip in August of 2013 and still miss him dearly. I found a sweet “shelter” dog last March & named her Penny. Love her but sometimes catch myself calling her Chip. Prayers for you all.