The Blessing of Children

???????????????????????????????When God blesses two parents with 7 children as he did Mary and Bervin, he also ensures all kinds of ripple-effect mini-blessings along with them. Not only will the mom and dad have babies and preschoolers charming them for many years, but the school years offer their own decades of joy. Which is not to say there aren’t a few bumps along the way.

Mary and I have often talked about the difficulty we both had trying to spread our love and attention over each of our seven while we were raising them. But the up-side was their steady attentions to each other, not to mention the multiplied dividends so many children would end up returning to their parents, once they became adults.

During these especially difficult days of Mary’s cancer and its treatment, she and Bervin are experiencing that special loving attention from their grown kids. And it’s God who gets the credit for setting it all up this way.

Children come into a family “insisting” mommy and daddy serve them non-stop. None of us become parents because we want pay-back, but when it eventually happens (usually taking us by surprise), it’s pure delight. By the time children have grown into adults, we’ve gained meaningful friendships that nourish us every bit as much as we’ve nourished them.

And then there are those God-given gifts we receive through our adult children that are above-and-beyond, gifts like children-in-law, and grandchildren.

Jo and familyAnd so smack dab in the middle of Mary’s cancer and chemo, the Lord has gifted these two parents with a couple of these mega-gifts:

Their 30-something daughter, Johanna, and her family of five have just announced that a new baby will join them in October, putting Mary and Bervin into double-digit grandparenting!

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And if that wasn’t thrill enough, 20-something daughter Stina called a week ago with the exciting news she and boyfriend Evan had just gotten engaged! Mary and Bervin will gain a 5th in-law child, a young man they’ve already come to love.

And so the weeks continue on, a mix of positives and negatives for this family (as it is for most families). The important thing is for all of us to recognize God’s presence in both the good stuff and the bad, thanking him for all of it. His purpose is to teach us through  circumstances, and he’s hoping we’ll receive them with open minds and open arms.

And isn’t it interesting to note how often he includes our children as part of his lesson plans?

“Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him.” (Psalm 127:3)

Mary’s Prayer Requests and Praises

  1. Praise that she could go back to attending her Bible study today
  2. Pray for the courage to face chemo well
  3. Continue to pray for wisdom in choosing which hospital for chemo

3 thoughts on “The Blessing of Children

  1. What a great news that the ytterbergs are expecting their forth!!! And gratis to Stina and Evan!

  2. God is always active and busy. His blessings and intervention in our lives never ceases. There is a chorus we sometimes sing at church:
    The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases,
    His mercies never come to an end,
    They are new every morning, new every morning,
    Great is Thy faithfulness, O Lord.
    Great is Thy faithfulness. (Sorry – I don’t know who wrote it)

  3. A PRAYER For Healing for Mary!! Lord you invite all who are burdened to come to you, allow your healing hand to heal Mary.Touch Mary’s soul with your compassion for others and touch Mary’s heart with your courage and infinite love for all.Touch Mary’s mind with your wisdom that her mouth may always proclaim your praise.Teach Mary to reach out to you in her need and help her to lead others to you by her example.Most loving heart of Jesup bring to Mary health in body and spirit that she may serve you with all her strength.Jesus touch gently Mary’s life which you have created now and forever.AMEN. We will continue to pray for you and know we live your courage and strength.Blessings for healing!! Karen Schneider