Reach for it!

When our Nelson was a toddler, he loved to climb. Finding contentment with toys and books at his own eye level was never good enough, and his goal was always to move higher. During his climbing phase I struggled to keep track of him while managing newborn Lars and would often round a corner to find him in high places: on the kitchen counter, atop his dresser, on the highest stair outside the railing.

For Nelson, everything he wanted most was out of reach. More accurately, whatever was out of reach was what he wanted most.

I remember watching his face turn upward, eyes scanning a high shelf or cabinet, and saying to him, “Nelson, there’s nothing up there for you. Why don’t we find your colored blocks?” (Or bouncy-ball. Or fire truck.) But nothing he could see fascinated him like the things he couldn’t.

Many of us who are non-toddlers are exactly that way. Just knowing something is out of reach can be reason enough to go after it. But isn’t perseverance and resolve frequently promoted in the Bible as good things?

Not always. It depends on the object of our pursuit, and God gives us a list. He tells us to go after godliness, kindness, peace, love, faith, single-mindedness, gentleness, righteousness… and to go after him.

Reaching for things not on this list might end the way most of Nelson’s climb-and-find projects did: a crash, a mess, and a reprimand. He usually ended up buried, bumped, or bleeding, and most often was disappointed when what he “just had to have” turned out to be a whopping disappointment.

Oftentimes God puts things out of our reach on purpose and for good reasons. He might be trying to save us from harm. Maybe it’s simply a not-yet thing being withheld to develop our patience. He might be holding something high so he can give us something else that’s even better than what we’re currently reaching for.

None of us likes to be told “stop” or “no.” Nelson certainly didn’t. If I aborted one of his climbing pursuits, he’d react by kicking his feet and howling with objections. Though adults aren’t as outwardly demonstrative, we usually do the same thing in our hearts.

God encourages us to reach for the things on his list, and once we commit to pursuing what he wants us to pursue, he gives his blessing for us to climb as high as we want to get it. And because we’re going after the things he’s endorsed, we can be sure that in the end there will be no crashes, messes, or reprimands.

“Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness. Fight the good fight of the faith.” (1 Timothy 6:11-12)

4 thoughts on “Reach for it!

  1. Many of us, like Nelson, scaled the lifeguard chair at the beach. I think it is wonderful how God uses everything, both the good and the not so good. Nelson wouldn’t be doing what he is today without that drive to “reach” outside of the known and familiar. God is in control of that trait and using it. When we are right with God he uses it all for His glory.

  2. How wonderfully God has fitted Nelson for his work with YWAM. It’s interesting to me how God gives us His gifts before we have the wisdom to use them properly. That’s why he supplies parents to teach us wisdom.

  3. Wow- that’s quite a picture of Nelson hanging from the stairs!!
    The older we get the more time compresses like an accordian, and every so often the creases unfold to cause us to remember even small details. Only the heart of a parent can recall such events with precision… sometimes with the help of pictures, but mostly treasured in our hearts.
    It is true, isn’t it, that the seed of who Nelson would become and what he was called to do is evident from his earliest days.
    Pastor James has said this recently: take care of what is on God’s heart and He will take care of what is on your heart.
    Love,
    Terry