I feel like celebrating!

With four boys in the family, our driveway saw a steady stream of interesting and needy vehicles come and go. Each first-car was purchased with only hundreds of dollars rather than thousands and was sometimes held together with tape, wire and bungee cords.

By the time our younger girls needed wheels, their brothers were experienced bargain-hunters and facilitated the purchase of Louisa’s sky-blue Honda Accord, which she later sold to Birgitta. Despite the car being 13 years old, the boys assured the girls it was in its prime with “only” 145,000 miles, good for 200,000 more.

The little Honda has banked 72,000 toward those 200,000 without an issue until recently when the hood latch let go on the highway, flinging the hood up over the windshield with such force it shattered all the glass, bent the window frame and cracked the roof. (“In Sync with God,” June 7, 2011)

Because the incident occurred on a superhighway, police insisted the car be towed off the premises within 20 minutes. It was a high pressure situation during which Birgitta was traumatized, and I was missing Nate’s important input.

Towed to a body shop, the Accord appeared to be damaged beyond its humble value, so we let it go in exchange for tow fees and storage charges. But once I was back in Michigan, Klaus said, “Mom, you made the wrong call. The engine was still good.”

He arranged to have it free-towed 100 miles to Michigan where his buddy fixed it for under $400. It isn’t perfect but is quite acceptable. Then came the fun part: surprising Birgitta, which occurred this weekend.

As we arrived home well after midnight I said, “Remember the surprise I said you were getting? Well, there it is.”

“Where?” she said, looking around inside my car.

“Out the front window,” I said, watching her eyes squint in the dark. When she recognized her blue car, she covered her mouth with her hand, spit out a few words in an attempt to say what she was thinking, and squealed with delight. “My car! Is it my car? Is it still broken? Is it fixed?”

It was a spectacular surprise, thanks to Klaus, better than the best 4th of July fireworks show. Birgitta’s appreciation for her wheels has sky-rocketed, because what once was gone has been restored.

The whole thing reminds me of the three biblical stories Jesus told, one after the other, about restoration: the lost sheep, lost coin and lost son. (Luke 15) In each case the “find” generated a celebration. But Jesus made it clear he’d only told those stories to demonstrate one thing: that jubilant feeling of finding what was lost is exactly his feeling when someone repents of sin and comes to salvation.

After watching Birgitta get her car back, we know how that feels. And it feels really good!

“In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” (Luke 15:10)

Words that Pack a Wallop

Many of you blog readers have asked, “Do you ever run out of ideas?” Since God owns GettingThroughThis.com, the answer is, “No.”

God running out of ideas? Ludicrous.

Although the blog words are written on a plastic keyboard, God is the one behind them. I attempt to translate his idea into cyberspace words while he chooses the “so what” moment and Scripture. In other words, he generates three-fourths of each post. I love watching him bring it together, sometimes talking to him out loud. “Oh, you’re right about that, Lord.” Or “Good one!” Or “I never noticed that.”

This blog site began when Linnea, another family writer, urged me to start it. Her blog was up and running (www.KissYourMiracle.com), and she was finding it satisfying to encourage young women.

“Just try it, Mom,” she said. “You’ve always hoped God would use your writing for his purposes, and a blog will put it out there.”

She and Adam set it up, taught me to use it, and joined me in naming it. I remember my first post back in August of 2009. It was after midnight as I tried to summon the courage to push the “publish” button, my index finger shaking over the keyboard. The World Wide Web? Really?

But God and I had talked it over thoroughly, and I couldn’t refuse the opportunity. With one click, www.GettingThroughThis.com was born. A month later Nate and I heard the words “terminal cancer,” and the site was ready to update concerned friends. Later, as grieving began, the blog was a place to sort it all out at the end of each difficult day. Recently it’s been a place to heal and to watch God faithfully keep his promises.

But you, blog reader, are very important to the site and to me. First thing in the morning, you’re on my mind. I’m also bringing you to God in prayer off and on throughout the day, knowing he’s answering with one-on-one attention. In the nearly 5000 comments you’ve left on the site, you’ve also been a blessing to me and every other reader. It’s a world wide relationship.

Recently I’ve been handed a brand new writing opportunity (a book for Discovery House Publishing) that will take much of my time in upcoming months. Since it’s a steep climb for a 65 year old to learn something new, I’ve decided to cut my blogging from 7 days to 4-5 each week and won’t be posting on weekends for a while. This wasn’t an easy decision.

Some have told me they’d rather die than sit in front of a blank computer page each evening to write 500 words. For me it’s pure pleasure, sometimes even worship. My humble little blog bonds me to the Lord in a unique dependency that’s addictive. He and I meet because of my need for him, and the fact that he’s co-written each of 661 posts makes me love him intensely, not just because he’s rescuing me from floundering on my own but because I can’t wait to hear what he has to say each day.

So, the Lord and you and I will continue to meet here most days of the week. Because there are absolutely no words that pack a wallop like his.

“The words of the Lord are flawless, like silver purified in a crucible, like gold refined seven times.” (Psalm 12:6)

 

Last Chance?

The other day I drove past a sad scene. A restaurant that had once been crowded with hungry guests and lively with animated conversation had shut down. Weeds had found their way through sidewalk cracks and around the edges of the building, some reaching above window sills. The neglect was evident.

My guess is the restaurant hadn’t been closed for too long. Abandoned buildings fall into quick disrepair and are a bulky example of “use it or lose it.”

That’s true for human bodies, too. Consider a person who breaks an arm. When the cast is removed after 6 weeks, muscles seem non-existent and the limb looks shrunken, abnormal, non-functional. Without using it, we lose it.

And what about the languages we learn in high school and college? At one point we know 8000 vocabulary words and can speak in simple sentences. Then we abandon the language lab and the vocab cards, and before long, the language slips away, too.

What about people? I think of the strong bonds linking them together and how they quickly become fragile if neglected. Without loving contact between husband and wife, parent and child, friend and friend, the attachment diminishes and gradually the relationship fizzles.

Is this true in the spiritual realm, too? God promised never to leave us, but what if we leave him? Is it possible to lose this critical relationship by not using it? I’m not referring to the debate about whether or not we can lose our salvation but about the ongoing connection we’ve been invited to have with the Lord after he saves our souls. Do we keep it fresh and current? Are we up to date with him?

And the more important question is, if we’re not caring for that relationship, how difficult does it become to regain it? Is it as hard as rebuilding biceps? Or learning vocabulary? Or repairing a marriage?

What if it’s more difficult still? Good questions for us might be, “If Christ returned today, would I be happy with the way our relationship stands? Am I ready for him? Or can I improve my end of things? Without using what he’s given me, am I losing out on what could be a fabulous union?”

A neglected building can be sold, painted, cleaned and landscaped. A new restaurant can move in. Patrons can come. It’s a big job, but each loss can be recouped.

But if Jesus comes tomorrow, we’ll never have another chance to regain what we lost during our time on earth.

“You must be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.” (Matthew 24:44)