I didn’t know…

Nate used to say, “Ignorance is no excuse,” and of course most of us agree with that. The trouble is, when we’re dealing with complications like filling out tax forms or answering questions we haven’t researched, pleading ignorance is a handy escape hatch.

While driving home from Iowa last weekend, a sign on the highway reminded me how ignorant I really am. It said, “CELL PHONES ILLEGAL IN WORK ZONES.”

I knew about work zone speed reductions, massive fines for hitting a worker and jail terms for doing damage, but never had I heard about the cell phones. What else don’t I know?

When I was a child, people marveled that the knowledge of the world had actually doubled in 50 years. By the time I was in college, knowledge had doubled again in only 5 years. Today the speed of knowledge-increase may not even be calculable.

The internet has taken the place of Encyclopedia Britannica, and teachers no longer ask students to memorize answers to questions but rather teach them which questions to ask. The answers are too numerous to learn.

Scripture has a great deal to say about knowledge. It’s often linked with wisdom and understanding, a triple fail-safe for correct thinking. We’re encouraged to get as much of them as we can.

God criticizes the simple-minded for not wanting to gain knowledge and doesn’t accept their excuse of ignorance kindly. His judgment of those who hate knowledge is severe, because God himself is the stepping-off point for gaining it. In a sense, if we don’t want a knowledge-increase, we don’t want him.

Dictionary.com tells us knowledge has to do with facts, truth and principles, and Scripture is loaded with them. Learning what they are is our first step toward right living, and to work at it is stepping toward God. So how do we do it?

One way is to notice sunsets, storms, stars, the sun and moon. Psalm 19 tells us the heavens “pour forth speech that reveals knowledge.” It sounds like God is making it easy for us.

Another way is to have a healthy fear of the Lord. Proverbs 1 tells us not only is this the start of being wise, it’s also the source of knowledge. Proverbs also says that if we study the Bible to gain knowledge of God, we’ll have a leg up on understanding, too. And another tip from him:  it’s a good idea to steer clear of people who don’t value knowledge. Better to hang out with those who do.

God actually wants us to have knowledge, along with all its benefits, and he reveals many of his knowledge-secrets as we quest after them. (Matthew 13:11) The end result is godliness, something we’d all love to have.

And now that we know how, I guess ignorance is no excuse.

“This is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ.” (Philippians 1:9-10)

Fathers Day, Part 2 of 2

For nearly 30 years, my dad owned a successful engineering firm, operating out of a Chicago high rise in the concrete canyons of the Loop. As a kid I visited him often (with girlfriends in tow), admiring the thick glass double doors in his reception area and his big office overlooking the skyline.

Dad’s drafting room resembled a Disney studio with its 200 tilted drawing tables and men perched atop tall stools working on royal-colored blueprints. To him, though, it was just a way to earn a living. After retirement at 70, he didn’t look back and never missed it.

Dad did well for a little boy who started school without a word of English. His Swedish immigrant parents worked hard and expected him to do the same, which he did, finishing school with two degrees from Northwestern University.

Attending a Swedish Free Church in the city, he heard the Gospel as a child and received Christ into his life, never wavering in his commitment. A quiet man, he didn’t dictate his faith but lived it out in front of us for 92 years. As Mom frequently said, “Your father is the most Christ-like man I’ve ever known.”

When Dad died, his last will and testament was more like a last will and testimony. I read the legal document through, no small task with its complicated legalese, but two paragraphs jumped off the pages. They had nothing to do with possessions, trusts or assets, and were written in simple language I understood:

Article II commit my soul into the hands of my Savior in full confidence that, having redeemed it and washed it in His most precious blood, He will present it faultless before my Heavenly Father.

Article IVIt is my hope that the beneficiaries will remember the words of Our Lord who said, “A man’s life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth.” (Luke 12:15) Let them consider themselves as stewards of their possessions, not forgetting to use them for the welfare of others, particularly with respect to bringing the Gospel of Jesus Christ to those in spiritual darkness. By giving both time and money unselfishly, they will discover the truth of Our Lord’s words: “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35) and “Whosoever will be chief among you, let him be the servant of all.” (Matthew 20:27)

Dad was ready to die, because he’d made the main thing the main thing. He’d led a life of quiet sacrifice, serving the poor, giving 50% of his income to the Lord’s work, and putting himself after everyone else. He’d given much and, as the Bible says will happen to a giving person, he was then given more.

He also left a legacy of harmony in his family, a large group in which there was no fighting, no anger, no bitterness. I remember hundreds of the words he spoke in life but none more vividly than those he left in death.

“Freely ye have received, freely give.” (Matthew 10:8)

Fathers Day, Part 1 of 2

Today’s faithful fathers are fewer then ever before in our country’s history, and many children suffer intensely without one. Dedicated dads have a tough job, having to buck cultural trends by not just sticking with their role but pouring steady effort into their children every day. The energy and time for that has to be taken from someplace else in their lives, and those who commit and follow through deserve to be honored not just annually but once a month, or weekly, or better yet every day.

Although I shared in my brother-in-law’s Fathers Day celebration today, only one of my kids could attend (Lars), and I worried about the other 6, all in faraway places and all without a dad. Birgitta and I talked it through yesterday, and Linnea posted a beautiful blog-tribute to her father. (www.LinneaCurington.com) But how many of them have suffered pain today?

I remember the great joy I felt in watching Nate become a father for the first time in 1973. Baby Nelson gave him that title, and although Nate hadn’t been around babies (ever), the love he felt for his little guy was immediate and powerful. To me, as a young mama, watching him study the new baby on his lap was fulfilling and even sexy. (Go figure.)

He was committed to parenting for the long haul and was always mystified when another father would walk out on his children. “I can’t understand it,” he’d say, shaking his head. “That guy had a part in bringing them into this world. How could he leave them?” It was the farthest thing from his intention.

I know that scenario was heavy on his mind when he learned he would soon die. It was unthinkable that cancer or anything else would force him to leave his children, a picture too closely related to those fathers he vilified. He was silent on the issue while he was sick, but as he talked to the seven offspring he loved so intensely, his face confirmed the ache in his heart, knowing he would soon go.

Nate needn’t have worried, though. The Lord had immediate plans to step in for him. In Scripture God refers to himself as a Father, offering to treat believers as his own children. And Jesus refers to him as a Heavenly Father to those who accept him.

All of us need the guidance and protection of a wise father, and God is not just a substitute for an earthly father but a superior one. Although he places human fathers over children and uses them as the channel of his wisdom to, and care of them, in the absence of that important man, he steps in and does it himself.

I’m sure Nate’s children all missed him greatly today. I’m not sure how many of them suffered, but I do know God the Father was and is available to soothe their grief and fill their emptiness.

“His name is the Lord—rejoice in his presence! Father to the fatherless, this is God.” (Psalm 68:4,5)