We’re covered.

Love comes down.

When Nelson was hospitalized, Ann Sophie sat nearby and sketched what she was thinking and seeing. Here’s the result.

There’s Nelson, tucked into his bed (with the plastic mattress) in a sitting position, as always. And there she is, close by with baby Will on her lap. The most fascinating part of the sketch, though, is that God is there too. His hand is covering all three of them, as well as the IV pole and the nurses’ computer, two important items. And his hand is delivering multiple gifts of love.

I think the key word might be “covering.”

I (Nelson’s mom) am back in southwest Michigan right now, since 15 of my 16 grandchildren have come to town. Meanwhile, in Minnesota, Ann Sophie’s mom is providing a third pair of hands.

But no matter where we are or what the schedule dictates on any given day, we all know we have God’s covering of love. And thanks to you, Reader, we also have your covering of prayer.

In the last two days, the Mayo doctors have been trying to figure out a wise approach for the next phase of Nelson’s care. Though they’re excited about finding the mutation that will allow immunotherapy, they can’t go blindly into that next treatment without letting his current treatment (i.e. chemotherapy) work its way out of his system.

If they move too soon, the treatment Nelson might overwhelm him. The old expression “hold your horses” seems to apply. We want immunotherapy treatment asap, but their wisdom says, “Hold on a minute.”

Complicating everything is the blood thinner Nelson’s taking to work steadily on the large blood clot beneath his collar bone. It usually takes months to dissolve a clot like that, so he won’t be off blood thinners any time soon. In the mean time, when Nelson asks, ”What can I do to help?”, he gets this answer:

“Just don’t go anywhere, don’t get sick, don’t cut yourself, and watch for anything abnormal. The second anything happens, go right to the ER.”

Though this sounds threatening, Nelson is taking it in stride, because as he often says, “It’s always too soon to panic.” He’s simply living out his own advice. And he fully believes God is, indeed, covering him, pouring love into his life steadily as Ann Sophie’s sketch shows, no matter what’s happening around him.

A college friend of mine, Pam, has been sending us pictures, laminated cards, a beautiful necklace, an umbrella coloring book, and many other umbrella-related items in an effort to say the same thing: we are covered—both by God’s love and by the prayers of many. We are thankful!

“He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty.” (Psalm 91:1)

The Timing of God

One more from me (Nelson) here. We started the day by taking Mom to the airport here in Rochester so she could travel back to Michigan to be present for basically all her children and grandchildren coming for a reunion. That being the case, she didn’t have time to crank out the blog tonight.
I have to pause here and give credit where credit is due. As I drove away from the tiny Rochester airport, I pondered the woman she is. My Mom is a legend. She serves tirelessly here with us, doing wherever is necessary to fill in the holes while I was out of commission and now goes to serve the rest of her children and 15 other grandchildren and basically host retreat to see the giant Life-size Ark down in Kentucky. There is hardly a woman like her who does so much and always keeps a level head despite the changing circumstances.

Plus, she does us all the huge favor of writing this blog tirelessly almost every night so y’all can have prayer material and an update.
Then of course as if on cue, Ann Sophie’s Mom, Astrid, landed here last night from Germany to be with us for a while and finally get to meet her 1 and only grandchild, which is our little Will. We are so thankful for the Lord’s timing when it comes to having the right person with us at the right time. Annso and I were just reflecting to each other that it would be too much for us to go it alone with all my complications and a 4 month old baby all happening at the same time. God is faithful.

Speaking of timing, today was day 10 since my chemo and theoretically around the time when I get a little break from the nausea and vomiting before the next round which is set for July 20 when it starts all over again. All I can say is I’m up for a few boring days.

The only thing happening medically is a blood work-up tomorrow (yes, Mayo is open Sunday) to check Platelet levels so we know where we stand going into the week.

I was never the guy who would wish for a boring weekend. People ask if I have plans and I say, “Hopefully nothing at all happens.”

Just being able to be home with Annso and Will feeling relatively decent is a win in my book. Funny how your priorities change when you really come to grips with the fragility of your humanity. In a weird way, I’m thankful for that part of this fight.