Creative Kids

One of the blessings of having children around is their bent toward creativity. Our 3 Florida grands are spending a couple of weeks with us, and evidence of their prolific ideas is everywhere.

Skylar drawsFor example, when Skylar noticed condensation on the front storm door, she quickly turned it into artwork. When space on the glass ran out, she raced to the basement for paper and markers to draw the fresh ideas she’d gleaned while drawing on the door. Before long she had her own art show, along with a toy cash register for making change during sales.

 

Sand angel MicahAnother example: Micah loved our trip to the playground, romping on the monkey bars and slides till he got the lovely idea to make a snow angel in the sand. I watched as he stood to admire his work, deciding he could make a better one. He stomped all over the sand to “erase” what he’d made, and dropped down to repeat the process. Though there was sand in the bathtub that night, his joy in creating was lovely.

 

Autumn rides the boxA third example: Twenty-month old Autumn watched Emerald open gift after gift at her birthday party, but none of them were for her. When a big, colorful riding toy appeared, she decided to get creative, ignoring the actual present and finding satisfaction in riding the box it came in. How can we not applaud such imaginative thinking?

When God created the earth and those who live on it, he demonstrated the ultimate in imaginative thinking. And he did it all without supplies. Though we humans have figured out how to create/clone sheep, mice, and other creatures, it can only be done by using a living, breathing mother of the same species who can carry the embryo to term.

Life always and only comes from life, with one exception: when the scientist is God.

“Imaginative thinking,” the quality I love in my grandchildren, isn’t really the right label for God. The only appropriate one is Creator. Ex nihilo. Everything out of nothing.

Play DohI like to picture God forming the first human being from clay much like my grandchildren and I shape Play Doh. Did he lovingly craft Adam’s heart in his hands (and every other organ), enjoying the process of assembling him? And once this young man’s body was complete, did he lean over, mouth-to-mouth as we do in resuscitation efforts, and breathe life into him?

It’s a thrilling picture far superior to “imaginative thinking.” When I watch my grandchildren getting creative, though, I like to think it’s God’s way of “tagging” them with a bit of himself. After all, some of their best ideas just seem to come…. ex nihilo! And only God could be behind those.

“The Lord God formed the man from the dust of the ground. He breathed the breath of life into the man’s nostrils, and the man became a living person.” (Genesis 2:7)

Party City

One little candleThis weekend was a birthday triple-header for our family: Jack turned 77 in dog years, Lars turned 39 in human years, and Emerald turned one precious baby-year. And the one with the smallest number was the biggest deal.

Although Emerald won’t remem- ber the fun we had in her honor, the party was important for 3 reasons: (1) her extended family had a good time getting together; (2) birthday photos will someday show her how joyfully we celebrated her life; (3) we celebrated Birgitta’s year-one survival as a single mom.

Our little pumpkinEmerald was battling her first-ever illness (a snotty cold and cough), but Birgitta followed through with her plan to visit a local pumpkin farm. Cold windy weather wasn’t ideal, but her sunny personality shone through anyway, even as she smiled through watery eyes and a runny nose.

First birthdays are always special. Buying toys and mini-clothes for a 12 month old is a happy project for any of us, and watching them finger their first hunk of birthday cake is one of the most photographed events of family life.

Nelson turning oneI remember well our firstborn’s first birthday. It was a double-party with his cousin Julia and a dozen couples with their children. Mary and I cooked two menus: one for the little people and one for their parents. We had games for children and also adults, along with prizes, family photographs, party favors, and 2 homemade cakes. I stayed up till 4:30 am decorating my school bus.

Overkill for sure.

Most of us find it’s easy to get caught up in celebrations. Years ago, we knew a couple that lived from party to party, doing their best to endure regular life in between. We attended one of those, and well after midnight watched the hostess literally tugging on guests who were preparing to leave. “Please don’t go yet!” she said. “Just one more hour!”

Most of life can’t be about merrymaking. That’s because we’re duty-bound to many commitments that aren’t very much fun. That’s especially true for those of us trying to follow biblical guidelines: “May you be completely faithful to the Lord our God. May you always obey his decrees and commands.” (1 Kings 8:61)

Being faithful to the Lord includes things like working steadily on troubled relationships, following through on commitments, reaching toward blameless character, and repeatedly asking God’s forgiveness for personal sin. None of these would fly as good party themes.

That’s not to say there aren’t party times coming. Scripture promises good eating, lots of singing, a spirit of rejoicing, grand adventures, and satisfying relationships…. eventually.

Something newSince God has always been faithful to us, these duty-bound days should be used to be faithful to him as an effective lead-in to the celebratory days ahead. And maybe it’s even ok to make a big deal out of birthdays now, if we’ll just view them as foretastes of the great parties in store for later.

So… Happy Birthday, Emerald, Lars, and Jack!

 

 

Lars and MomMmmm. Cake...“He always stands by his covenant — the commit- ment he made to a thou- sand generations.” (Psalm 105:8)

 

A Sticky Mess

Bumbo babyEmerald is a petite little girl who still fits nicely into her Bumbo seat. Although she can twist her way out of it, when she’s up on the counter, we’re monitoring her closely.

Usually.

Yesterday while I was making her lunch, she was happily fingering a basket of sippy cups and bottles next to her. But in 30 seconds, a mysterious pink liquid began sliding out from under the basket.

Sticky mess.

 

Somehow she’d undone the child safety cap on a bottle of infant ibuprofen, then set it back into the basket upsidedown, which released the syrupy liquid till the bottle was empty.

Of course she had no idea what she’d done, but she’d wasted valuable medicine, created a sticky mess, and postponed lunch for clean-up time.

Once in a while I act that way too, getting into things that will end up the same way: wasteful, messy, and time-consuming. The only difference is, I’m old enough to know better.

Scripture warns us to count the cost of whatever we do. We’re to be industrious, yes, but we’re also to commit our decisions, plans, and behaviors to God before plunging in on instinct alone. When we ignore that counsel, we pay a hefty price.

Even worse than having to pay, though, is the loss of God’s approval. If we want him to be on our side (or more accurately, if we want to be on his side) we have to do things his way. Those of us who give lip service to obedience but do things our own way regardless, have a problem with pride.

The Bible doesn’t mince words on this subject. We read, “God opposes the proud.” (James 4:6) He isn’t just neutral when we put our plans ahead of his; he stands in opposition to us. And if there ever was an uneven match, “God-versus-me” is it. I want to do everything possible to avoid being part of that scenario.

As always, though, God doesn’t issue an edict and leave us hanging. Right after he lets us know what not to do, he tells us what to do: “Submit to Me.” (v. 7)

Sounds easy, but isn’t. That’s because pride is stiff-necked and expertly resistant to humbling, and the devil is behind it, relentlessly tempting us to put ourselves first. Maybe that’s why God’s next instruction is, “Resist the devil, and he will flee.”

Working backwards, then, if we want no part of the devil –> we’re to resist him –> which helps us submit to God –> which helps us kill pride –> which brings on humility –> which allows us to be on God’s side.

All gone.So when my plans result in a sticky mess, I know it’s simply the Lord saying, “Let’s clean this up and try again.”

“God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble. Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” (James 4:6-7)