The Dictatorship

Most of us get sleepy when battling jet lag. Babies and toddlers, however, get peppier. And they use their pep for two purposes: to holler with gusto and outlast their parents.

Katy and Hans do valiantly. After a 20 hour day yesterday traveling from the UK to the US, they slept a bit but were up for the day at 2:30 am because of three jet-lagged babies whose bodies told them it was morning. Breakfast kicked off at 3:00 am, first baby naps at 5:00, and by 5:30 Katy and Hans were wondering, “Are we crazy to be here?”

Nate used to refer to babies as “little dictators.” But Katy and Hans have a plan to come out from under that dominance. After five days of grace, one for each time zone crossed, the little dictators will be crying it out on a schedule chosen by their parents.

Babies aren’t the only dictators in life. All of us have bouts with them, and I’ve battled one my entire life. It’s sugar. My mental dictator hollers orders daily in multiple ways. “That candy bar looks good. Eat it. It doesn’t matter that it’s breakfast time.” Or, “Everyone else is having another piece of cake. Go ahead.” Or, “You’ve been good all day. Reward yourself with a bagful of cookies.”

On and on the dictator orders. Sometimes I’ve succumbed to his ways. Other times I’ve resisted. Always I battle.

Other people listen to different dictators telling them what to do, what to think, where to go, what to say, how to act. Obeying a dictator is easy; it’s the aftermath that hurts. We struggle with guilt, sadness, disgust, anger at the dictator and disappointment with ourselves. But if we refuse to give in to the dictator’s demands, things usually turn out well.

Who is this dictator? His character is that of a lying tempter, and his name is Satan. All of these inner battles are fought on the landscape of right versus wrong, and when we obey the voice of the dictator, wrong wins.

Interestingly, Jesus wrestled against the dictator exactly as we do today. While he was a man on earth, Satan literally tormented him with temptations, desperate to take down the Son of God. On one occasion he taunted, scolded and attacked Jesus relentlessly for 40 days and nights straight. For Jesus it was every bit as difficult to win over temptation as it is for us today, yet he resisted 100%.

The good news is that when we turn away from the dictator repeatedly, he’ll eventually stop goading us, at least for a while. The bad news is Jesus was incessantly tempted while he was a man, which is why we know the same will be true for us. But there’s more good news. Jesus knows exactly how we feel, and being the success story he is, he can counsel us on how to be victorious against the dictator.

I wonder what his suggestions would be for getting three babies to sleep?

“Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, left the Jordan and was led by the Spirit into the wilderness, where for forty days he was tempted by the devil. Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.” (Luke 4:1-2, Hebrews 2:18)

Get ready!

As I write, our British Nymans are winging their way westward, crossing an icy ocean en route to Chicago’s O’Hare Airport. Klaus is on his way to meet them while I finish readying the cottage for five very important people.

Hans and Katy made quite a commitment when they purchased plane tickets to come for Christmas. An eight hour flight with three little ones under two is a challenge even for the courageous. When you have a baby squirming in your lap, you can barely retrieve a diaper from the bag at your feet, much less accept your airline meal tray or eat from it.

As Klaus was strapping three complicated car seats into a borrowed van, he said, “Boy, babies are a lot of trouble!”

But even with three trouble-makers, Katy has planned with expertise, making lists and getting them completed. Although she probably didn’t sleep last night wondering what she’d forgotten, she’s one of the better organizers I know, beginning her preparations weeks ago. By yesterday, everything was ready.

In anticipating this visit, I’ve been making preparations, too. Because these five Nymans will be staying five weeks, I wanted them to really settle in once they got here. That meant emptying drawers and a closet, borrowing baby beds and readying the biggest bedroom. Preparing for this afternoon’s arrival meant digging out (and washing) the toys, stockpiling groceries, cleaning out the fridge and putting the extra leaves in the dining table.

It also meant setting up two high chairs and a junior chair, getting a sturdy gate for the top of the steps and baby-proofing the house: no candles low-down, nothing breakable within baby-reach and everything swallowable off the floor.

Lastly I did a thorough cleaning. Jack and I keep a casual house, but there’s something objectionable about picking up a crawling baby with black dog hair all over him.

I’m not sure Katy and Hans would call their vacation preparation “enjoyable”, but I sure had fun getting ready at this end. With each chore, my eagerness for their arrival grew.

During this Christmas season, I’ve thought about the time before Jesus was born when the Jews faithfully maintained a sense of preparedness, eager for Messiah’s coming. We weren’t there for that but do have a chance to prepare for his second arrival on earth. Just as I worked to be ready for the young Nymans I love, I want to also be ready for the Savior I love. I don’t know the calendar specifics, but that shouldn’t discourage me from preparing:

Am I keeping short accounts with him, confessing sin as I become aware of it? Am I living with an expectancy of heaven rather than finding security on earth? Am I daily aware the clock is ticking, working to make the most of time rather than waste it? These are good questions for my preparational list.

And speaking of lists, where did I put that British Airways flight info?

“The Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him. He may come in the middle of the night or just before dawn. But whenever he comes, he will reward the servants who are ready.” (Matthew 24:44, Luke 12:38)

You-Store-It, Conclusion

During the summer of 2009, Nate and I moved to Michigan and rented a storage garage for some serious possession- overflow. Three months later, we’d pared things down at the cottage and managed to empty the storage unit. So that afternoon I drove back to the facility to turn in my lock and key, hoping to get my deposit back.

The woman behind the desk said, “Is the unit completely empty?”

“Yes.”

“Did you sweep it out thoroughly?”

“Was I supposed to?”

“Yes,” she said, pointing to the corner. “There’s a broom you can use.”

I was in a hurry that day but wanted my deposit back, so thought I’d better give the unit at least “a lick and a promise.” Walking toward #35, I was grumbling to myself when God brought me up short, convicting me with Scripture. It was the verse about doing every task “as unto the Lord,” and of course he reminded me that this included sweeping out a dingy storage unit.

Although the woman couldn’t see me or #35 from where she sat and would never know whether I swept it or not, God was watching. Before I got to the unit, I began to understand he’d just given me a golden opportunity to make a deposit into my heavenly-treasure account. The only choice was to take up his challenge.

After opening the heavy metal door, I began swinging the broom with gusto, reaching up to the ceiling for cobwebs, down the walls for dust bunnies and across the floor for everything else. Not one leaf, twig, clump of dirt or bit of sand was left in that unit when I was finished. After yanking down the door, I swept the asphalt outside until #35 looked better than any of the other units. It was as clean as a whistle.

I returned the broom, telling the woman it had been swept, and she refunded my $25.

A year and a half later (i.e. last week), Nelson was back at that same rental counter, needing storage for two truck-loads of stuff. As the woman behind the desk handed him a lock and key, she said, “Turn right around the office, then go left and half way down. Unit #35.”

And it was as clean as a whistle.

“Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might, for in the realm of the dead, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom.” (Ecclesiastes 9:10)